Originally Posted by BlackIce

Now I see alot of people into this and such and you all seem older *not trying to be disrespectful* But I'm 22 and my gf is 20 and we're interested in doing this. We've been togther for 5 years now and we both are very sexual people and we have a strong monogomaus relationship. We're interested in having a 3some with another woman and also with another couple and possibly involved in some of those sex parties. However, we're completely new to this and not sure even where to begin looking up information about this type of thing. We just signed up for some swinging site but havent gone through all of it yet. Honestly, I'm not sure if im completely comfortable with her having sex with another man. On one hand, the thought of it turns me on alot but I'm not sure if I would be able to deal with the jealousness of it but I'm willing to at least try it once and see how it goes. We have only had sex with each other and no one else.

So we're wondering is there a swinging crowd for people our ages? We want to deal with people around our age group 20-25. Also, how did everyone get into the swinging thing? What was the first expirence like for you? And do you have any advice for us since we have no clue...oh and we live in NJ if that helps any lol