LadySage, ah gotcha.  Damn, blonde mode is out to get me tonight!  :P
Siege, yeah same here.  Well, now more than ever, but even before when I was a whale with a 42" waist, the veins in my arms were always visable.  Now that I'm a 34" waist they show even more.  
 
Here are some good examples of different bodyfat percentages.  Pictures 3 through 8 will hopefully confirm my point as to women disliking extreme leaness.  It's the same guy as he cuts fat from 12% bodyfat to 5% bodyfat.
The last picture needs a warning, the guy's 3% bodyfat, and even 
I find it gross. 
*WARNING WARNING EXTREME LEANESS*
3% bodyfat:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attach...postid=2248100