Like someone stated in a previous thread, I don't believe you can choose who you fall in love with. The choice is whether or not you act on those feelings, or feel comfortable acting on them.
Personally, I did not choose to fall in love with my husband. In fact, I was ga-ga over another gentlemen when I met him. It just happened. When it happened, it hit me like a freight train and I was like..whoa!! What just happened??!
That's my 2cents anyhow =)
~Rachael
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