raeanna74

Is there a rental contract? If so, get a copy and read it. If not ask them to draw up one. Doing business with friends, if not handled VERY carefully, could screw things up badly.

I would see if you can get a month to month contract deal, or something somewhat shortterm. I would talk to Dad and see how he feels about this. If after a few months of him living on his own, if he's constantly asking you to come home, or you find that he's not caring for himself as is healthy, then you can always move back home.

If they are still adding a bathroom in the basement apartment then where will you be going to the bathroom in the meantime?
As another person said, Will you have a separate entrance?
What are their work schedules? i.e. Will they be up much later than you and making noise till late at night, or visa versa?
Is the floor between you and them insulated, sheetrocked, or just floor joists and flooring?

Don't underestimate Dad's independance. The day may come too soon that he will need you much more. Get out on your own while you can.

My instincts say that moving to your friends basement would not be your best choice either. That sounds like too volitile of a situation. Friends, business, kids, and money - very risky combination.

__________________
"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.