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Originally Posted by yournamehere
He made you give back the classic vinyl?
That's fucked up.
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I agree, but what the hell
Her dads been an arsehole about the whole thing. he's a nice bloke but he seems to hate me
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Originally Posted by savvypup
Yeah, why give the vinyls back if they were a gift???
Paulskinback, refresh us to the reasons behind the breakup and how long ago.
My thoughts at the moment, call her, catchup for a coffee and feel out how she feels about where her life is at the moment. Forever wondering or having regrets are awfully heavy to carry around.
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Reasons for the breakup: We lived together, I quit my job to find a new career as it was going nowhere, I racked up more debt, couldn't find or hold down jobs, became depressed.... things came back from the past, my parents divorced 3 years ago and it didn't come to the surface until then. I kind of shut it out and never dealt with it. So I became a bit of an emotional fuck up. Lost who I thought I was, retreated into my shell, and stopped being a good boyfriend I suppose.
She also had a big transition and decided to go back to university which she's starting next month and I think she didn't want me attached to her any more. It just sort of broke down over a few months then we argued, I started sleeping in the spare room, we wanted time apart to sort things out and that just became a break up.