I have nothing specific to add to the above suggestions, but I would like to give a general tip:
Whatever advice you read here (or anywhere) that you like, and would like to try: within a relationship always do things like you always do. Don't think to much about the specific text of the advice. Don't be bolder than usual and don't be more timid than previously. Just pick an approach and go with the flow.
The worst turnoff is when you appear to be running through a step by step plan (esp. if it appears to come from someone else). Remember: she wants to be with
you as you are, not with you as a summary of TFP-advice
, although the advice can help you get over your "hump". (real bad choice of word here
)
Anyhow: congratulations on finding someone you care enough about and are comfortable with for taking the next step!