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I've been in a pretty healthy relationship with this girl for a while and we've done thing as far as mutual masterbation and, while I haven't pushed her to do anything, I feel like we're going to cross that bridge soon and have sex.

However, it would be my first time (I'm 20), and I haven't asked her of her past experience (she had a boyfriend of almost 5 years, 4 of which before she was even 18). It doesn't matter to me if she is a virgin or not, but I am having a hard time getting over the hump, so to speak. What I mean is, I'm not sure what is an appropriate way to initiate us going further. While we're gettin heavy, I was thinking of saying something like "what would you like me to do?". I know some would suggest to just whip out a condom, show her, and not say a word, but I'm not sure I'd go for that.

Anyway, any suggestions on how you initiated your first time with someone who is showing the signs that they want to, but haven't made the moves towards you?