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* How important are orgasms to your satisfaction with sex?
Though I rarely orgasm during sex with a partner, I'd have to say they are pretty important.
* Are you happy with the percentage of orgasms going on in your relationship?
I'm not in one but when I was, definitely no
* If not, what have you done/are you doing to remedy that problem?
It's rather a complicated problem. I have tried several things, like extra lube, extra foreplay, even talking to my gyno about it and getting treatment from her, but nothing has worked so far. Now I am considering a sexologist, to talk I guess.
It really sucks because I love sex and can get myself off clitorally in about 5 mins if I want. But with a partner it's extra hard. I'm a pretty horny person but sex has become a bit of a chore sometimes because I know I'm not going to get what I want most of the time.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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