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Originally Posted by cookmo
So I think I skewed your poll a bit. I put that I always orgasm, then realised you were referring to vaginal orgasms.
I have never had a vaginal orgasm, always clitoral. In short, I masturbate myself while being fucked.
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Nope, I pretty much refer to any kind of orgasm that's experienced with your partner... so, anything involving the couple having sex, making love, giving head, going down, doing the dirty, whatever you want to call it. If you are masturbating while being fucked, well hey... that's still sex, in my opinion (just did that with my man tonight, in fact
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For the purposes of this poll, I am choosing to exclude total solo masturbation because... well, most of us can make ourselves come on demand, when we're alone and a good video is playing in front of us (or we have some nice toys).
But adding another person into the picture makes things more complicated for having an orgasm... it takes two bodies and minds interacting.
And given the thread in Ladies Lounge about women (not) talking about sex, I wondered if women might benefit from talking about what their patterns are, what works for them and what doesn't, what makes them happy. And to hear about men's experiences, too.
