I have to say that I was involved the same way your boyfriend was. I slept with a few girls that looking back at it now, I wasnt really attracted to. I did "date" them, but it could have been because of the fact that they were showing me attention and interest and at that exact moment no one else was. So why not have fun and enjoy. The second I felt like I was doing something wrong, or I didnt want to sleep with them, or see them anymore, I ended it.
I look back at it now and I really dont regret sleeping with any of them. I have gained invaluable experience from all of my sexual encounters, and relationships. And you know what, all that experience has prepared me to impress and completely fulfill the girl I am going to marry now. So you know, everything you do in life builds you up for your true calling and you end up being the perfect mate for one girl. Hey, it worked for me. (even though my fiance wonders the same thing about why I dated certain girls that were much less attractive than her... I think girls do that to size up there "competition")
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