Prospective parents
This is directed mainly to people who plan on having children in the future, however those who are already parents are more then welcome to chip in.
One day I plan on having children. Not sure exactly when, seeing as I'm still young and have alot left to handle, but nonetheless, one day. However, I've pondered some weird thoughts lately on raising my future children.
My life has been pretty crazy so far, alot of good things however alot of bad. I'd love to talk about all the bad stuff, but this isn't the place to do it. It's definately things I dont want my child to be apart of though. However, it has shaped me to be the person I am today and I am in a good place. I've also done alot of the "good" things in life such as attended a university of california, athletics, internships, makin money (both in good ways / bad ways ). I want my child to do all the good things one day, however how am I gonna stop him or her from doing the bad things, because I've done alot of them? I'd feel like such a hipocrit. Just curious to see how you all do / plan on raising your children and if you allow them to do alot of the things you dont want them doing, just because at one point in your life you were doing them.
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