I prefer au naturel with a nice depilatory trim around the edges. I have shaved completely in the past (for my ex) and
hated it. I also agree with a previous poster who was off-put by the little girl connotations of a shaved pussy on a woman. No offense to anyone that prefers it, but on me personally, it just feels a little creepy. Plus I had
many more of episodes of vaginosis and yeast infections while I was shaving.
As far as men's hair goes, please don't touch a hair for me! I LOVE men's body hair. All over, anywhere. Love it, love it, LOVE IT! (...well, perhaps I could do without that ear hair

).