I think cybermike and flstf are right. As a teenage girl, I never really thought of older men as sexy. Except for the occasional older man I already knew personally. I think that women are indeed allowed to make comments about younger men because most women would never seriously try to get with a younger guy because for women it's not just about sex but also financial stability, which most young men cannot provide. With older men making sexually suggestive comments about girls, they say it because they mean it. Most younger women don't have a lot of economic power. On top of that, we're weaker than men physically and, at least for me, it takes a long time before you realize who you are as a person. Women are conditioned to not be unpleasant, say no, etc. It takes us a while to learn to assert ourselves. Something that males are encouraged to do right away. Females that learn that at a young age are labeled bitches. Just my opinion.
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