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thespian86 · 07-22-2006, 05:18 PM

I would like to reply to all of those who have commented with thank you; it's always appriciated. I'm not sure if I was looking for a grow up but it is nice to learn that pulling out is useless. I am at a point in my life where pregnancy would simply put a large halt to both of our futures. And it is scary, we both have very bright paths ahead of us, and to see them being changed freaks us out. Yes, she has had her breasts feel larger and tender before and has felt ill before also; so thank you to Buk who posted about the effects of birthcontrol, that really eases my mind.

This is not about not accepting or foreseeing any problems, such as becoming a father. I will be a good father I'm sure, and Ash will be an amazing mother, she was born to be.

I began this thread simply looking for flaws in my paranoia, not in my approach to making love to my fiancee. If a child is a result of it then it will be accepted and loved. I am, unashamedly so, quite niave and unexperienced when it comes to intercourse. I know how to make a girl come but beyond the teenaged frolics I encountered I am uninformed. I don't trust the medical journals or pages dedicated to the subject on the internet obviously, I thought I would come to a place where I could put my trust in the more then experienced perople around me.

NG: My fiancee and I are both young and inexperienced, we are both willing to learn and communication is never, and has never, been a problem; ESPECIALLY sexually. But asking each other what we enjoy is far from this subject. Otherwise we would. I ask here instead; I thought that was clear?

thank you for your posts and please continue; i love feedback.

07-22-2006, 05:18 PM	#12 (permalink)
thespian86 change is hard. Location: the green room.	I would like to reply to all of those who have commented with thank you; it's always appriciated. I'm not sure if I was looking for a grow up but it is nice to learn that pulling out is useless. I am at a point in my life where pregnancy would simply put a large halt to both of our futures. And it is scary, we both have very bright paths ahead of us, and to see them being changed freaks us out. Yes, she has had her breasts feel larger and tender before and has felt ill before also; so thank you to Buk who posted about the effects of birthcontrol, that really eases my mind. This is not about not accepting or foreseeing any problems, such as becoming a father. I will be a good father I'm sure, and Ash will be an amazing mother, she was born to be. I began this thread simply looking for flaws in my paranoia, not in my approach to making love to my fiancee. If a child is a result of it then it will be accepted and loved. I am, unashamedly so, quite niave and unexperienced when it comes to intercourse. I know how to make a girl come but beyond the teenaged frolics I encountered I am uninformed. I don't trust the medical journals or pages dedicated to the subject on the internet obviously, I thought I would come to a place where I could put my trust in the more then experienced perople around me. NG: My fiancee and I are both young and inexperienced, we are both willing to learn and communication is never, and has never, been a problem; ESPECIALLY sexually. But asking each other what we enjoy is far from this subject. Otherwise we would. I ask here instead; I thought that was clear? thank you for your posts and please continue; i love feedback. __________________ EX: Whats new? ME: I officially love coffee more then you now. EX: uh... ME: So, not much.