Ok, you do know that pulling out only means she gets less of a wet spot to sleep on, right? It has nothing to do with preventing pregnancy.
*gets out large box marked 'SOAP' and steps up:
There have been numerous threads about 'I'm scared I/gf/SO might be pregnant', so I have to ask: If the thought of the remotest possibility of pregnancy is so frightening that imagination runs wild, why on earth are you having intercourse? Yea, ok, you couldn't help youselves, etc., but if you don't know what to do to totally protect yourself from this possibility you simply shouldn't be doing it.
Some remedial review: BC pills are not foolproof, especially for the first complete cycle. They do not protect against disease either, so if you're not sure, wear the rubber, always. Pulling out means nothing, nada, zip. The highest potency (concentration of sperm) is in that first spurt. Once you feel yourself coming, you're too late. You might not get all 20million swimmers in there, but the strongest ones are already on their way. This goes for touching genitals to genitals-your chances are remote, but even that primary dribble has sperm.
You can't get pregnant with fingering. Period. (Don't laugh, it's been asked) Dried cum on your hand is just that, not some potent lotion bound for procreation.
Women, girls under 20, are irregular. It's a fact of life and it's highlighted with stresses of college, boyfriends, life and if they're athletic, they can be further irregular.
You can create a pregnancy at any time. Don't depend on the '15 day rule'. It's an average based on the 'perfect' cycle. Females can and do ovulate anywhere from the 7th day after a period to the 21st day after. It's called a 'luteal phase' and it's not always perfect and can vary from woman to woman, month to month.
Educate yourself. Remember 'sex ed'? That class you either skipped or fell asleep in? It probably had some decent information that you missed. Read, discuss. Having sex with someone is THE most personal thing you can do, yet actually discussing it somehow gets pushed back way too often.
*steps down, grabs the box and walks off.....
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