Originally Posted by Cynthetiq

since you aren't a visual person, let me help you with some visual examples...

<object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/zrhTw8HTetU"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/zrhTw8HTetU" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object>

or one of these