interesting thread. having been married for over 16yrs to one of the many psycho hose beasts, i have some wisdom to share. I have figured out women. i have also learned how not to play the game. this young gentleman needs to understand that some woman desire to create chaos in their lives in order to feel the rush, excitement, and unpredictability that emotions bring to their lives (read: drama) because they want to feel ALIVE! when you can supply that in a healthy way, without having to dip into the sucking black hole of the female self-image wasteland, you'll be on your way. Always leave the responsibility for the question asked on the asker. but do it at the time the question is asked. If she wants to know what you think is wrong with her, ask her why. find the root issue, don't waste time scratching the surface. Don't allow the drama to fire up.
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