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Originally Posted by maleficent
Homosexuality isn't a choice... I doubt many people would make the choice to do or to be something that causes them such inner turmoil and could potentially damage existing relationships that they do have.
With bisexuality, i think in some cases it is a choice, I read an article recently that described some college age females as being GUGs (Gay until Graduation) that they've gone the bisexual route to be "alternative" and it was a choice for them... I think that's true in some cases...
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for the sake of arguing? Don't people make choices everyday, even large choices, that put themselves in obvious uncomfortable places that cause anxiety and innerturmoil? And also, why would homosexuality and attraction to the same sex be any different if you are attracted to both? I know some people experiment but I will never do things more then once if I don't find an advantage in it.
that said I believe men and women are born gay. But not because of how hard the choice would be, simply because the choice could never be made. I like what I like and I never choose my preferences. They are simply who I am.