little_tippler

Well, that says a lot...

I think if you feel you must, just write her the short letter. A card, perhaps, like cj2112 suggests.

Otherwise, I'd just let it go. Hopefully this time she'll finally let it go also.

What you say about wanting closure is normal...and it's also normal that now that things aren't as sharp and painful in your mind, that you now feel able to just let it go. She is no longer as important in your life and you've realised that life goes on without her, and that perhaps she wasn't right for you, as a lover or a friend. I have had similar experiences, and even though these people (who would consume your every thought but that in reality were sucking all the energy from you for themselves) never entirely fade away from your memory, you'll soon find that they were a mere glitch in the bigger picture of your life, and that you may even have learned something from the situation.

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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918