just a random thought about horniness and willingness
So, my gf is on nuvaring and it's great, EXCEPT her sex drive has steadily been declining since being on it (probably about 13 months now) and it never fails. The very DAY she is off it to start her period, she is super ultra horny. Not that i mind, just that it's almost like clockwork. When we can do whatever freely, she isn't in the mood, but the second she's off it, BAM, wants it 24/7.
Anyway, said that to say this. Sunday was her day off the ring and she was just itching to go about it, but we had to take some pictures and do some thigns first. We're in the park and things are going well and she starts getting a bit more playful than normal. Then, out of the blue, she's flashing me and showing bits and parts for the camera and just being a bit more naughty. This is definitely NOT her normal behavior, by any means. She is normally much more conservative when it comes to things in public. She was also up for more fun stuff later on, but that's another matter.
Anyway, that leads to this. Does anyone notice a difference in what you enjoy based upon your level of horniness. Like, there are some things we both really enjoy only when we're really turned on and afterwards, the thought of it is...well, not bad, but not great, either. One of those things where you turn to each other and just say.."wtf was that?" Or, say things you'd never do post-orgasm just seem to be an absolute blast in the minutes before?
Just curious bc i've always had these urges and lusts that pass the instant the O is over, but i've never known someone else who exhibitted markedly different behaviours based on sexual arousal. It just seems so fascinating.
Thanks for reading, look forward to your responses
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