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I'm always interested in finding another point of view. I'm trying to see this from her perspective; it's entirely possible that you're correct in your assumption that you're being used and abused and I don't mean to say that isn't the case. But reading between the lines and with what you've given us, I see an alternative. You said she's just finished school and just completed her last test. Is it possible that when she was in school she was simply busy to the point that she didn't have time or didn't remember to call you as often? Depending on how frequently you got in touch with her, I could see that being the case; if a friend calls me once a week and I'm otherwise pre-occupied, I'm probably not going to worry too much about getting in touch with him/her; it may not be the right thing precisely to assume that the other person will always initiate conversations, but it certainly is easy when you've got a lot of other stuff on your mind.
That's just a thought, anyway. In this, as in everything, you need to take the course that you feel will be best for yourself.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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