Sounds like she's not willing to meet your terms: a real opportunity to communicate. parties are not the best place to communicate, particularly when she's the host.
Make it clear that you want a private lunch where you can communicate, not a party.
I never find it rude when someone is reluctant to share their address. In this case, it's possible she might use the address to stalk you. Don't give it.
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