I used to have the same problem until relatively recently.
I was confronted by a 'sized' selection of condoms and didnt know what to do. Here in the UK, condoms don't normally come 'sized' so I knew I was broader than the average bear and plumped for the large, extra large and extra extra large varieties.
Hey, A guy can dream, right?
Anyway, I tried the large, which was the same-as-ever instant loss of erection blah blah blah problems. So I moved to the Extra large, which was marginally better, but still quite horribly tight and couldn't really feel so much. It also split - a common occurance in my history of condom usage.
Now.. I tried the XXL model.
Works like a dream. Its not so excrutiatingly tight, so its all much better. They've never split, never caused any ingame 'too-quick' or 'too-slow' issues and I can suddenly feel things, even though they seem to be just standard thickness condoms.
So, my advice is this, go find yourself some alternatively sized or shaped condoms. It might just work.
Everybody gotta have a dream, whats your dream?
