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Originally Posted by HoneyPot
Dangit!Its hard for me to let me walls down and let people in and when I do I always get hurt. I'm trying to watch out for myself and I don't want to be taken a fool.
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That's key, right there.
While it's
possible there's more to it...there probably isn't. Guys do stupid, irrational, unexplainable, off the wall crap. Especially when there's alcohol involved. Trust me. I know. I'm a guy.
I've been walking this planet for over 43 years now. Oh...rest assured...I've
done my share of stupid, irrational, unexplainable, off the wall crap.
Look, I understand that you've been hurt before. I understand that you don't want to get hurt again. I also understand that it's hard to let your guard down. We've
all been hurt at some time or another, and I'm here to tell you...it
sucks. But, unless you either want to join a convent, or be known as that crazy old lady down the street that has all those cats...you
have to learn to trust. Without that...there really is nothing else.
My advice is to give your guy the benefit of the doubt. Unless there is substantial reason to believe otherwise, just chalk it up to boys being boys, shake your head and move on.