Mojodragon is a brave man to say such a thing here. My sister and I were both unintended. Smile, my mom chose life twice!
I had the same thought myself and as a result I didn't have sex until I was an adult and now only have sex with my fiance
The problem is compounded if you don't accept abortion as a way out, which I don't. I have planned my entire life around the possibility of unintended motherhood, even though I am REALLY REALLY HOPING never to have kids at all.
If more people could do math, maybe there would be fewer surprise pregnancies!