Wow, each to their own, I guess?
I never thought anyone would be willing to spend that much money on a day of their lives... that only celebrities and such did that. But here we are with some regular ol' TFPers... damn.
Thanks for the very detailed answers (esp Sir Lance... wow!)... it's interesting to see that MUCH of the cost gets chalked up to the bride (with her gown, attendants, and ring). At the same time, women TFP'ers seem rather proud to have spent less on their weddings, while the male ones have no regrets about spending lots. Innnteresting.
Well, I found a book about having a wedding for $5,000 or less and am excited to take a look at it. I know it's possible.