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Well apparantly everything has been said already, but for sure be cautious...
Like it has been said in here sometimes kids are fine with people coming and going in their life, but it is not always the case...
Kids personality varies as well and some will not deal very well with the all situation either... A friend of my girlfriend is a single mum that split up with her husband and her kid is taking realy badly the fact that now her mum and dad have different partner and not living together anymore... She will go and complain to the new partners that they are not allow to kiss her parents because only her daddy can kiss her mummy and vice versa...
My crrent girlfriend is a single mum and we have waited for the relationship to be serious before I met the kid... In our case everything went fine and is still fine, the kid play with me straight away after meeting me and we are quite close together... For him I am his second dad and for me he is like a son... But then again I love kid and know the influence my presence can have on him...
If you are not keen on kid, really think before you act cos if the relationship goes further and you end up living together, well having a kid around do changes a lot...
After if it is just a fling, well, nothing stp you from going out withouthaving the kid around, so no risk it affect him...
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