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It's not that you don't get to say anything. You need to think of ways to make the situation palatable for both of you, and choose the words to portray that.
Q: You don't even care that I'm out every night?
A: I miss you, but this seems like something you need to do. Anytime you want me to go, let me know.
This sounds hard, but he who cares the least, wins. That doesn't mean you have to disengage caring about her. It means you have to get into a mindset of being incredibly not needy.
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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