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Well, i have no problem meeting her friends or hanging out with them, but she doesnt even want me to come with her to hang our with her friends. This situation started with her getting antsy staying at home. So she would go out during the day. I understand that. Being trapped at home for too long can drive anyone crazy. But, it led to her going out at night for an hour or two, which i also didnt mind because she still came home and we were able to talk and spend some time together. But, that led to her now staying out until 1-2AM and the only time i get to see her is when she wakes me up getting home. It started with her not really wanting to be "HOME", wanting to get out of the house. But it seems to have moved toward her making me the excuse to go out. She says that she doesnt want to be around me, that she just needs "space" right now. But, then she makes statements like...."you dont even care that i am out evey night?" I have offered to go with her, i have done the whole needy thing and pleaded with her to spend time with me, (which by the way, is never a good idea), and i am now trying to let her do her thing and not say much of anything. Where do i go from here? Any suggestions.
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