Just Jess, you have stated exactly what is going on it seems. You talk as though you have gone through the same situation. She is not on any meds. She worked for the first year of our relationship, but since then she has always been a stay at home wife. And, as far as i knew she has been fine with that. Oh, and when i say chores, i mean like cleaning the house, taking care of the dogs, those sort of things - which had already been split up amongst both of us. And, i know she isnt going out with any other guys. We have talked, and it has never been a trust issue. The main issue for me is just getting things to settle down and keep eachother on the same page.....Also as much as i hate to admit it, yes i am probably a little needy, but i am working on that. Again, thank you for all of your comments.
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