Originally Posted by Sultana

So yeah, I think Elphaba and savvypup had it right. I don't think that was the whole thing, but it surely must have added to the situation. She said a few other things to that confirmed this.

Anyways, when all was said and done, I told her that I wanted to end the convo on an "action" note, and asked if she and hubby and friends would be interested in going to dinner some time. She said she'd have to think about it a while--which shows another way we are different. If places had been reversed, I would certainly had gone out of my way to accept an invite, to let the other person know they were well and truely forgiven. But I suppose that if I'm not, then that's a step best not taken at that point.

So there it is. Thanks again for your very kind words and support. It's meant the world to me.