Sultana, I am finding something amiss as well. If you put out bad vibes when stressed about a work situation, you would have learned about it long before now in other circumstances.
Your coworker's wife may sincerely believe that she is not jealous, but I think she feels threatened by something. You are beautiful, vivacious, and spend time with her husband. There may be ghosts from the past that are driving her reaction, and you would not have had control over her response.
If you get no response from her, I suggest that you let it drop and maintain a pleasant working relationship with her husband. Perhaps he will feel more comfortable if you drop it. Just a couple cents worth.
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