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I don't disagree with analog. I had dated a mom at one time and she wasn't all that interested in her offspring. At that point in time in my life I was interested in kids and it just hit me as a bit odd.
Now that I know that I don't want to have kids, and am not planning on any, I understand analog's feelings quite well.
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If you're not interested in having kids of your own, then yes, definitely don't get involved. But if that's not the case and it's purely because you think those kids would be a hinderance, I think it's a shame to nip it in the bud straight off. Each to their own though.
I think it would be a fairly upfront conversational piece though, and if that's the way you felt, things obviously wouldn't progress in the direction of a relationship.