|
She's your friend? "set up by a few guys"? and you don't know the details?
Get her to talk about it, if you don't know the details you don't know if she was date raped or not, whether she perceives it was her fault or theirs, was she "set up" or not. Could be these guys were just helping their mate pull a girl. Until you know the details you don't know how to handle it. If she's suicidal then getting outside help involved might be the exact wrong thing to do. She's probably feeling embarassed and/or humiliated and having other people involved may make those feelings worse. After all, if she's frantically searching the net for this video she obviously doesn't want people to know. I wouldn't blame yourself too much over your statement either, she may feel partly to blame for getting in that situation in the first place and your statement might have reinforced that belief. Tell her how worried you are. Tell her a one night stand's no big deal. Don't be judgemental and spend lots of time with this person.
|