I don't know where to put this, so I hope it's the right forum.
A while ago a friend of mine was set-up by a few guys (I don't know the details of the situation) and she ended up having a one-night stand with one of them. Aside from the horrible feelings she had afterwards, she didn't think too much of it. Well, a few days afterwards she was telling me what happened and I happened to make the statement (Rather innocently, mind you) "That sounds like a cheap porno!" Well, that was a mistake.
Since then she has been very depressed, very paranoid and overly suicidal. The worst part is that I don't know what to say to her to try to help her because she's absolutely positive she was video-taped. Worst yet, it that she thinks she was video-taped and put on the internet somewhere. She spends (At least) twelve hours a day drinking and on the internet looking for the suspected video, all the while neglecting her two children.
Anyway, I am worried about her and really don't know what I can do to help her. She won't even talk to her mom or any of her female friends (I'm male). She is utterly convinced that the video exists somewhere on the internet and she's just wasting her time trying to find it. I'm pretty mad at myself for even mentioning something about a video in the first place, but that's neither here nor there. I'm scared that she's either going to end up killing herself or losing her kids
If this is the wrong forum, then feel free to move it.