How long did you go out for T_U? Don't keep your ex around if you just want someone to hang with when you get bored. That's not at all fair to her and she may be hurting from the breakup and think you may want to reconcile.
I can fully understand that being alone is very daunting, especially if you don't know anyone or have friends that are all coupled, but when you least expect it, people will come into your life. Just be open and welcoming to offers. And by that, I mean let some walls down and allow people to get to know you. You do this and people you have common ground with will surface. Give the girl from the bar a call. She may be the link to a great circle of future friends.
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ciao bella!
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