It's going to be weird for a while. Your routine has completely changed and if you're anything like me (I thrive on a nice steady routine) you're going to feel like pulling your hair out for a while. As odd as it sounds, when you feel like calling her late at night because you're bored, go for a drive instead. Or hop in the shower. It may seem stupid but it works. It keeps you occupied for a little bit and it will get you through that initial "I miss that other presence (sp?) right now". When you get out of the shower, or when you get home again you'll feel better about it because you didn't call her.
As far as calling the girl from the bar or someone else. Nuh uh. You have to learn how to spend that time when you're bored out of your mind. Everyone has to. Enjoy it. I love my alone time now because I live with my boyfriend, it doesn't happen very often. If you call the girl from the bar too soon it will be a rebound, trust me. Unless that's what you want, it wont be pretty. Especially if she's really into you. Just sit on your couch, close your eyes and breath. Think to yourself, nothing is more important than this moment, right now. And breath deeply. That will help you get used to your new "me time"
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Last edited by StormBerlin; 05-07-2006 at 08:17 PM..
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