Lindy

My bad, my bad, my bad.

You are correct all the way around, macmanmike. I know the correct usage of "your/you're," and that "your are" makes no sense whatsoever. I should have previewed one more time before posting.

You are also right that my post was inexcusably aggressive and harsh. I did have a bad (and long) day at work. More than that, a rereading of my post tells me that I am still carrying a big load of resentment of my ex and his financial immaturity, his always blaming the bank, and his leaving me to clean up the mess. That, more than the bad day at work, was what led to my unloading with both barrels on macmandan. Macmandan, please accept my apology.
(macwoman)Lindy