I hear "conservative" and unfortunately go into politic mode, bad habit sorry.
Is the Department of Health and Human Services- Center for Disease Control and Prevention official enough for you?
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf
Quote:
Results—Among adults 25–44 years of age, 97 percent of men and 98 percent of women have had vaginal intercourse; 90 percent of men and 88 percent of women have had oral sex with an opposite-sex partner; and 40 percent of men and 35 percent of women have had anal sex with an opposite-sex partner. About
6.5 percent of men 25–44 years of age have had oral or anal sex with another man. Based on a differently worded question, 11 percent of women 25–44 years of age reported having had a sexual experience with another woman. The public health significance of the findings is described.
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Funny, that similar to just about every other study I've looked at. Perhaps you can point to a
single one that shows its
not common?
That was a 30 sec google search btw. If that’s too much effort, then perhaps you just don't want to listen.
When they are ready to have sex, yes I would agree with you. But the point is they have already developed a certain amount of trust at that point (because there is a risk). That’s the point, for a women you've just met to get into your car, go to a private location with you, etc she is already developing some amount of trust in you (which according to the theory is a precurser to faster developing emotional feelings). I'd say at a greater level then the man feels (perhaps due to the examples of greater risks a women is exposed to, but again any more examples/thoughts you have to share on a man's perceived risks are encouraged).
As for child birth, put yourself in the situation of a one night stand. You might never know this even happened. Remember we are talking about different possible situations. The man might just decide to skip out and leave the woman pregnant by herself for example.