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If I'm understanding correctly, I believe the opposite. Being with a person for a lengthy period, yes, gives you more security and the know on what that person likes, how they like it and vice versa, but, being with someone who doesn't know you that well gives some people the ability to completely let their hair down and go wild.
Especially I think if you've been with that same person through the early experimentation part of your sexual encounters. This person could be and most likely is your best friend. And although you may love and enjoy sex and intimacy with them immensely, there's certain aspects of your own sexual side that you may have only fantasied about and never had the nerve to raise or take that person there with you.
There's lots of things I enjoy that I don't think I would feel comfortable performing with someone I'm deeply involved with. Does this make sense?
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ciao bella!
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