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Originally Posted by Sage
Personally, I think that if you're on the pill and having sex, and are still nervous about it and use a backup method, you're not as ready to be committing yourself to that person as you think you are. IMHO.
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Sage, no offense to ya, but I gotta disagree... as ktspktsp said, we are very committed to each other but we just aren't in the business of having kids (or abortion, or adoption) at all right now.
That may change, but until the day we are *sure* we can handle the increased risk... well, we really don't mind taking a few extra seconds to use a condom each time, in addition to my Ring. Condoms are really not a big deal for us, I guess... they become quite normal, if one takes the right attitude. We've been doing that for two years and it's become second-nature.
That said, if we somehow got pregnant while using the Ring AND a condom... well, hell, I suppose it would be a divine intervention to go ahead and have kids...
