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Originally Posted by Sage
Personally, I think that if you're on the pill and having sex, and are still nervous about it and use a backup method, you're not as ready to be committing yourself to that person as you think you are. IMHO.
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Well, I think your opinion totally ignores people who don't want children as a fact of life, not as a momentary decision for convenience. There are a lot of people for whom having a child is not a plan, at all, ever. To say that these relationships are somehow less committed than the ones with people who want kids at some point is completely ridiculous.
We're not talking about a couple of horny, hump-happy 16 year olds worrying about getting knocked up, we're talking about serious adults discussing the possibilities of their birth control methods.