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Originally Posted by MEAD
However, personally I think talknig about it before hand is really important, like take care of issues such as birth control, STDs, emotional commitment. I think it is best to get all that resonsiblity crap outta the way and then know the door is wide open for sex.
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MEAD hit it right on the head in my opinion. Just try to have an open, honest conversation with her about it. You're not in high school anymore you know!
You can talk about these things in ways that don't seem pushy if that's your concern. Maybe she likes that you're taking it slow, or maybe she's just dying for you to take some initiative. Either way, if your desire is to have something long-lasting, communication will be critical. No better opportunity to start practicing that then the sex talk.
Good luck man!