Knowing the signs
What are your opinions about the signs your partner gives off about wanting to have sex with you for the first time?
To explain a little background: I am a 20-year-old male virgin in college. I've wanted to wait for the right girl, and she is definitely it. We've been seeing each other officially for about 5 months, and we've gone as far as manual stimulation of each other - not oral sex though (not that it is necessarily a precursor to sex).
So my question comes from this: Every step we've taken, she's been basically the initiator. I let her go down my pants before I tried to go down hers, etc. She hasn't done anything beyond that yet. I am interested in having sex with her but I do not want to force it on her, as I've essentially let her choose where she wants to take things. Obviously, having sex with her isn't my #1 priority, as we have an amazing relationship without it.
What kind of cues might I see that might mean she wants to take it further? What might I do to signal her that I want to? (obviously I could straight up tell her, but I'd prefer not to as a first choice) In this relationship, it seems that I should just wait it out and if she wants to take it further, she'll take the initiative.
Any thoughts?
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