I know I have searched my life for a woman that shares my sense of humor, enjoys just being together, isn't worried about what we can or cannot afford and allows me to grow as I allow her to.
And I have found her.
You know it is true when you can say or do anything and she wilkl understand and accept you no matter what, as you accept her.
Sexually, we dated awhile first and truly got to know each other and fell in love with one another. Then I got an STD test and since then..... greatest sex I've ever had. Not in what she does, but because for the first time, it is pure and true love.
That's how I know. I trust her with everything, I can tell her anything about my past or what's inside and I know she will understand, not judge me and just be as loving and caring as before. Just as she knows I will do the same for her.
She encourages my dreams and goals as I encourage hers. She encourages me to go out with the "guys" and to grow as a person, as I do with her. And for the first time in any relationship, I am not jealous or paranoid about her findind another guy.... because I know where her heart lies.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?"
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