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Originally Posted by JinnKai
I don't think there is a "ONE."...snip
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My thoughts exactly.
I think it's an evolution of a relationship. The ONE for a selfish 20 yr old is NEVER going to be the ONE for a 30something yr old. People change constantly. If you're looking for "the one" you might find the one for the person you were at 20 when you are already 40 but because the two of you did not evolve together in a relationship you did not develop the strengths needed to compliment each other.
I think there's lots of people out there that a person might click with but there's never only ONE that you can work with. Relationships that take work can sometimes be more healthy than relationships where the people are so alike that they can finish each other's sentences. BECAUSE that sameness cripples them into expecting a constancy and assuming that the other person will always know what they're thinking. When in reality we're always changing and that sameness is not always going to be the case. When you stop working at a relationship it stops growing.
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