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Originally Posted by maleficent
I have often fantasized about watching an annoying customer or two have every hair on their body be pulled out one by one in a very slow torturtous way... It gets me thru some days... I Know in reality that wouldn't be such a good idea...
Fantasies are just that -- fantasies... something to get you thru some days and nights... not necessarily wanting them to come true... but it's fun to think about...
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Wow Mal, I think this is the first time I've disagreed with anything you posted, but not too strongly at least
I think people are mixing specific fantasies with general ones.
You might fantasize about killing someone, but there are reasons why this would be a 'bad thing' and I'd also hope it doesn't turn you on sexually.
You might fantasize about having sex with the boss, and again, there are reasons why this could be a 'bad thing' in terms of your job, home life, etc.
You might fantasize about having a FMF, and you find out your S.O wants to do it too. It too could be a 'bad thing' in some circumstances, but it can be a very good thing as well. To just dismiss a sexual fantasy out of hand might mean you are missing out on what would otherwise be a good addition to your life.