It is not a question of not *MY* woman for me. My fantasties often involve my wife alone with me doing some of the things that we have done before, or things that I'd like to do in the future with just her. My fantasies also include all manner and variety of things that we have yet to try (and quite likely never will) including MFF and MMF threesomes, etc. I think that, as other posters have suggested, it would be inappropriate to "surprise" the other person with the reality of something that you have previous only discussed in fantasy. I think that if you are ready to push the boundaries of your relationship and openly discuss making something like this fantasy into a reality, then more power to you... more power to your relationship.
As for me, I'd like to think that I would be open to the idea. I am all about pleasure. If it brings us both pleasure and sexual happiness, then it is a go with me. I doubt that my wife would be so willing though, so I likely would not have the chance to find out reality vs. fantasy.
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