So considering your responses, would most of you not want your fantasies to come true?
I ask because I watch porn and fantasize a great deal, but I guess I tend to watch porn/fantasize about things that I would find hot in real life, too (e.g. I don't watch BDSM, etc because it would turn me off in real life), so maybe my porn tastes are different. I would find it weird fantasizing about something that would actually turn me off in real life, which is why I'm trying to understand the guy's point of view here.
I do understand what you guys are saying... my boyfriend and I had a discussion about this in the car last night, and he said many of the same things. I'm saying most of these things just for the sake of seeing what other guys say, and if there is some consistency to perception of fantasy vs. reality for men/women.
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