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It's a fantasy/reality thing. Some of us are happy with a fantasy as long as it stays that way. When it finally becomes real, all bets are off. Suddenly a scenario which previously was just visualized, now has all sorts of strings attached and emotions involved.
Imagining my partner with another woman is pretty hot, I suppose, but I haven't fantasized about it before. If it were to become a prospect in real life, we'd have to give it some serious thought and discussion.
Basically, I don't see actualization as the natural next step from fantasy.
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